LA Clippers Should ALL Boycott Tomorrow’s Night Game

Behind this 1000% … this is just not right!!! SMH ….

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To truly make a stand against racism, the entire LA Clipper team should boycott tomorrows night game against the Golden State Warriors.

This is my opinion and if it’s not yours, I don’t care, I am talking my opinion here. What I do care about is what is right and taking a stand against racism. Forcing Donald Sterling to sell the Los Angeles Clippers is only going to give him financial gain. Donald Sterling paid approx. 15 million dollars for the team. The Clippers are now worth close to a billion dollars. So Donald Sterling will profit hundreds of millions of dollars.

Suspending Donald Sterling from the NBA for a year or so is not punishment enough, if that is what his sanction ends up being. That is a slap on the wrist to him.

The fans would be affected by the team not showing up for tomorrow nights game…

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MEDICAL CORNER …. D.R.A.M.A. …. I know a few!!

~~April 28, 2014~~

I have seen this clearly. I have lived through it before and still, at my age, live through this over and over again.


Don’t I ever learn? Or is it that there are too many out there?

My partner says that I have a sign/tattoo on my forehead that says “therapist“. They all come to me. I attract these like a nail to a magnet. I have realized throughout my professional career as well as my personal life that this type of situation will never go away. There are so many that thrive on this type of behavior.

What can anyone do?

Steer clear of anyone who emits an inkling of this behavior. It will stay with you and will consume your energy and your internal light.

~~The need for attention~~

Human beings are social creatures and need social interaction, feedback, and validation of their worth. The emotionally mature person doesn’t need to go hunting for these; they gain it naturally from their daily life, especially from their work and from stable relationships. Daniel Goleman calls emotional maturity emotional intelligence, or EQ; he believes, and we agree, that EQ is a much better indicator of a person’s character and value than intelligence quotient, or IQ.

The emotionally immature person, however, has low levels of self-esteem and self-confidence and consequently feels insecure; to counter these feelings of insecurity they will spend a large proportion of their lives creating situations in which they become the center of attention. It may be that the need for attention is inversely proportional to emotional maturity, therefore anyone indulging in attention-seeking behaviours is telling you how emotionally immature they are.

Attention-seeking behavior is surprisingly common. Being the centre of attention alleviates feelings of insecurity and inadequacy but the relief is temporary as the underlying problem remains unaddressed: low self-confidence and low self-esteem, and consequent low levels of self-worth and self-love.

Insecure and emotionally immature people often exhibit bullying behaviors, especially manipulation and deception. These are necessary in order to obtain attention which would not otherwise be forthcoming. Bullies and harassers have the emotional age of a young child and will exhibit temper tantrums, deceit, lying and manipulation to avoid exposure of their true nature and to evade accountability and sanction. This page lists some of the most common tactics bullies and manipulators employ to gain attention for themselves.

An attention-seeker may exhibit several of the methods listed below.

~~The sufferer~~

This might include feigning or exaggerating illness, playing on an injury, or perhaps causing or inviting injury, in extreme cases going as far as losing a limb. Severe cases may meet the diagnostic criteria for Munchausen Syndrome (also know as Factitious Disorder). The illness or injury becomes a vehicle for gaining sympathy and thus attention. The attention-seeker excels in manipulating people through their emotions, especially that of guilt. It’s very difficult not to feel sorry for someone who relates a plausible tale of suffering in a sob story or “poor me” drama.

~~The savior~~

 In attention-seeking personality disorders like Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy (MSBP, also known as Factitious Disorder By Proxy) the person, usually female, creates opportunities to be centre of attention by intentionally causing harm to others and then being their savior, by saving their life, and by being such a caring, compassionate person. Few people realise the injury was deliberate. The MSBP mother or nurse may kill several babies before suspicions are aroused. When not in saviour mode, the saviour may be resentful, perhaps even contemptuous, of the person or persons she is saving.

~~The rescuer~~

 Particularly common in family situations, she’s the one who will dash in and “rescue” people whenever the moment is opportune – to herself, that is. She then gains gratification from basking in the glory of her humanitarian actions. She will prey on any person suffering misfortune, infirmity, illness, injury, or anyone who has a vulnerability. The act of rescue and thus the opportunities for gaining attention can be enhanced if others are excluded from the act of rescue; this helps create a dependency relationship between the rescuer and rescued which can be exploited for further acts of rescue (and attention) later. When not in rescue mode, the rescuer may be resentful, perhaps even contemptuous, of the person she is rescuing.

~~The organizer~~

She may present herself as the one in charge, the one organising everything, the one who is reliable and dependable, the one people can always turn to. However, the objective is not to help people (this is only a means to an end) but to always be the centre of attention.

~~The manipulator~~

 She may exploit family relationships, manipulating others with guilt and distorting perceptions; although she may not harm people physically, she causes everyone to suffer emotional injury. Vulnerable family members are favourite targets. A common attention-seeking ploy is to claim she is being persecuted, victimised, excluded, isolated or ignored by another family member or group, perhaps insisting she is the target of a campaign of exclusion or harassment.

~~The mind-poisoner~~

adept at poisoning peoples’ minds by manipulating their perceptions of others, especially against the current target.

~~The drama queen~~

Every incident or opportunity, no matter how insignificant, is exploited, exaggerated and if necessary distorted to become an event of dramatic proportions. Everything is elevated to crisis proportions. Histrionics may be present where the person feels she is not the centre of attention but should be. Inappropriate flirtatious behaviour may also be present.

~~The busy bee~~

This individual is the busiest person in the world if her constant retelling of her life is to be believed. Everyday events which are regarded as normal by normal people take on epic proportions as everyone is invited to simultaneously admire and commiserate with this oh-so-busy person who never has a moment to herself, never has time to sit down, etc. She’s never too busy, though, to tell you how busy she is.

~~The feigner~~

When called to account and outwitted, the person instinctively uses the denial – counterattack – feigning victimhood strategy to manipulate everyone present, especially bystanders and those in authority. The most effective method of feigning victimhood is to burst into tears, for most people’s instinct is to feel sorry for them, to put their arm round them or offer them a tissue. There’s little more plausible than real tears, although as actresses know, it’s possible to turn these on at will. Feigners are adept at using crocodile tears. From years of practice, attention-seekers often give an Oscar-winning performance in this respect. Feigning victimhood is a favourite tactic of bullies and harassers to evade accountability and sanction. When accused of bullying and harassment, the person immediately turns on the water works and claims they are the one being bullied or harassed – even though there’s been no prior mention of being bullied or harassed. It’s the fact that this claim appears only after and in response to having been called to account that is revealing. Mature adults do not burst into tears when held accountable for their actions.

~~The false confessor~~

This person confesses to crimes they haven’t committed in order to gain attention from the police and the media. In some cases people have confessed to being serial killers, even though they cannot provide any substantive evidence of their crimes. Often they will confess to crimes which have just been reported in the media. Some individuals are know to the police as serial confessors. The false confessor is different from a person who make a false confession and admits to a crime of which they are accused because of emotional pressure and inappropriate interrogation tactics.

~~The abused~~

A person claims they are the victim of abuse, sexual abuse, rape etc. as a way of gaining attention for themselves. Crimes like abuse and rape are difficult to prove at the best of times and their incidence is so common that it is easy to make a plausible claim as a way of gaining attention.

~~The online victim~~

This person uses Internet chat rooms and forums to allege that they’ve been the victim of rape, violence, harassment, abuse etc. The alleged crime is never reported to the authorities, for obvious reasons. The facelessness and anonymity of the Internet suits this type of attention seeker.

~~The victim~~

She may intentionally create acts of harassment against herself, eg send herself hate mail or damage her own possessions in an attempt to incriminate a fellow employee, a family member, neighbour, etc. Scheming, cunning, devious, deceptive and manipulative, she will identify her “harasser” and produce circumstantial evidence in support of her claim. She will revel in the attention she gains and use her glib charm to plausibly dismiss any suggestion that she herself may be responsible. However, a background check may reveal that this is not the first time she has had this happen to her.

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Say! Things Drama Queens

We ALL are ONE!!

Uganda Seeks to Introduce More Anti-Gay Laws to Stop NGO Services

SMH …… Injustice!!


By Melanie Nathan, April 28, 2014.

Screen Shot 2014-04-28 at 10.26.26 AMIt is clear that the Ugandan government is doing everything that the Hitler Government did – that which preceded the holocaust. As if the scapegoating and Anti-Homosexuality Bill is not enough, now the Ugandan Government is looking to close loop-holes in its new already onerous law, which became law only in March of this year.

The Ugandan government wants to ensure that the LGBTI communities in Uganda receive no help and support, even with regard to HIV/AIDS services, medical services etc. Currently Ugandans, including human rights defenders are being persecuted or under severe threat of persecution, with many in exile and hiding, desperately seeking ways to survive. Many have been kicked out lodgings, rentals, family homes, jobs, schools etc. The hardest hit are the transgender community.

All the while Uganda continues to claim that America is boosting tourism to Uganda and America continues to…

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To start the day ….

~~April 28, 2014~~

“Spirit said to remind you, we know Mondays can be tough after the weekend. Take a few minutes and sit down with a coffee or a cup of tea and write a list of what you need to do today and follow the list.

You’ll feel more calm and focused when you see that everything you need to do can be easily done in the time you have. The first thing on the list, write smile I love you, second thing on the list take a few deep breathes to ground your energy.

Then fill in the rest ….

When you do this you’ll sail through the day with love and grace, with less haste and more speed.

Let us know how you get on! Love and blessings to you and yours!”

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~~The Om~~

~~Uploaded on Mar 31, 2007~~

Brief description of the sacred mantra Om
with Original Music from Isabella Rajotte

We ALL are connected through SPIRIT!! 

We ALL are ONE!!

10 things you need to know today: April 28, 2014

Here it is!!! Today’s main headlines. Take a look ….

The Fifth Column

A man surveys the destruction left by a tornado in Arkansas.  A man surveys the destruction left by a tornado in Arkansas. (AP Photo/Courtesy of James Bryant)

The Week

Obama announces more sanctions on Russia, tornadoes kill 17 in Arkansas and Oklahoma, and more

1. West steps up pressure on Russia over Ukraine’s crisis
President Obama on Monday announced more sanctions against Russia over its threats against Ukraine. The sanctions will target people linked to Russian President Vladimir Putin, aiming to “encourage him to walk the walk, not just talk the talk” on deescalating the crisis, Obama said. European Union leaders are meeting Monday to discuss tightening their own sanctions against Russia for backing separatists in Ukraine. [The New York TimesBBC News]


2. Deadly tornadoes hit central and southern U.S.
Two tornadoes from a powerful storm system killed at least 17 people in Arkansas and Oklahoma on Sunday. Authorities in Arkansas said the twister there…

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Merck’s Former Doctor Predicts that Gardasil will Become the Greatest Medical Scandal of All Time

Wouldn’t be surprised there!! Take a look!!

Merck’s Former Doctor Predicts that Gardasil will Become the Greatest Medical Scandal of All Time

Dr Bernard Dalbergue Mercks Former Doctor Predicts that Gardasil will Become the Greatest Medical Scandal of All Time

Health Impact News Editor

Dr. Dalbergue (pictured above), a former pharmaceutical industry physician with Gardasil manufacturer Merck, was interviewed in the April 2014 issue of the French magazine Principes de Santé (Health Principles). You can read it here (in French):–Gardasil–plus-grand-scandale-de-tous-les-tem.pdf


The full extent of the Gardasil scandal needs to be assessed: everyone knew when this vaccine was released on the American market that it would prove to be worthless!  Diane Harper, a major opinion leader in the United States, was one of the first to blow the whistle, pointing out the fraud and scam of it all….

…For all of these reasons, MEP Michèle Rivasi calls for a moratorium: member states must stop recommending this vaccine until more studies are conducted on Gardasil, its effectiveness and dangers.

[Note from SaneVax: There…

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How to stop global warming? This extraordinary movie made by the Nicolaas G. Pierson Foundation from Holland shows us the whole and bitter truth about the influence of the meat industry on our climate and on the devastation of our environment, water and air.

Reblogged!!! Something to search for and watch!!!

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More informations how to stop global warming: or

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How to stop global warming? This extraordinary movie made by the Nicolaas G. Pierson Foundation from Holland shows us the whole and bitter truth about the influence of the meat industry on our climate and on the devastation of our environment, water and air.

From the author: Climate Change and Global Warming – yes I know, it’s a hoax, it’s a scam and designed to keep us in fear and implement a Carbon Tax, as if we aren’t already taxed to death.

This video discusses an issue that is almost always overlooked when officials and science discuss climate.
What about the 90 BILLION animals…

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Today’s Adventure On The Harley

Love it!! I went on a Harley ride … with friends!! Living vicariously live through them!! ❤ ….

I Survived a Murder Attack -- My Family Didn't

Ronnie and I on our way from Mesa to Globe Ronnie and I on our way from Mesa to Globe My view on back of Harley My view on back of Harley My view on back of Harley My view on back of Harley Rock formations Rock formations Way back to Mesa from Globe Way back to Mesa from Globe Beautiful Arizona Beautiful Arizona Old Silver mine Old Silver mine Mountains Mountains The freeways are so clean and beautiful The freeways are so clean and beautiful Another side of the freeway shot Another side of the freeway shot Art work on freeway Art work on freeway

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