Memorial Day …. May 26, 2014!!

~~May 23,2014~~ 


In honor of this memorable day, “It Is What It Is“, will remain closed until the weekend is over.

I worked for the Department of Veterans Affairs for most of my professional career.

I developed a strong sense of connection to those who I cared for.

They made it back home. They are back with their loved ones; they may be hurting and definitely affected by their time in the military.

They made it back.

In honor of those who didn’t and in recognition of the families who lost them, we will remain offline. 




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We ALL are connected through these MEMORIES!! 


~~Published on May 25, 2012~~


It’s a simple melody, 150 years old, that can express our gratitude when words fail. Taps honors the men and women who have laid down their lives and paid the ultimate sacrifice for the cause of freedom. Fair winds and following seas, shipmates.

This version of taps was recorded by the United States Navy Band.

We ALL are ONE!! 


The meaning of Memorial Day …. May 26, 2014!!

~~May 23, 2014~~ 

Memorial Day is a US federal holiday wherein the men and women who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces are remembered. The holiday, which is celebrated every year on the final Monday of May, was formerly known as Decoration Day and originated after the American Civil War to commemorate the Union and Confederate soldiers who died in the Civil War. By the 20th century, Memorial Day had been extended to honor all Americans who have died while in the military service. It typically marks the start of the summer vacation season, while Labor Day marks its end.

Many people visit cemeteries and memorials, particularly to honor those who have died in military service. Many volunteers place an American flag on each grave in national cemeteries.

Annual Decoration Days for particular cemeteries are held on a Sunday in late spring or early summer in some rural areas of the American South, notably in the mountains. In cases involving a family graveyard where remote ancestors as well as those who were deceased more recently are buried, this may take on the character of an extended family reunion to which some people travel hundreds of miles.

People gather on the designated day and put flowers on graves and renew contacts with kinfolk and others. There often is a religious service and a “dinner on the ground,” the traditional term for a potluck meal in which people used to spread the dishes out on sheets or tablecloths on the grass. It is believed that this practice began before the American Civil War and thus may reflect the real origin of the “memorial day” idea.

Memorial Day is not to be confused with Veterans Day; Memorial Day is a day of remembering the men and women who died while serving, while Veterans Day celebrates the service of all U.S. military veterans.

~~History of the holiday~~

The practice of decorating soldiers’ graves with flowers is an ancient custom. Soldiers’ graves were decorated in the U.S. before and during the American Civil War. A claim was made in 1906 that the first Civil War soldier’s grave ever decorated was in Warrenton, Virginia, on June 3, 1861, implying the first Memorial Day occurred there. Though not for Union soldiers, there is authentic documentation that women in Savannah, Georgia, decorated Confederate soldiers’ graves in 1862.

In 1863, the cemetery dedication at Gettysburg, Pennsylvania, was a ceremony of commemoration at the graves of dead soldiers.

Local historians in Boalsburg, Pennsylvania, claim that ladies there decorated soldiers’ graves on July 4, 1864. As a result, Boalsburg promotes itself as the birthplace of Memorial Day.




Memorial Day was started by former slaves on May, 1, 1865 in Charleston, SC to honor 257 dead Union Soldiers who had been buried in a mass grave in a Confederate prison camp.

They dug up the bodies and worked for 2 weeks to give them a proper burial as gratitude for fighting for their freedom. They then held a parade of 10,000 people led by 2,800 Black children where they marched, sang and celebrated.


The country has been in turmoil for long. There have been countless wars and the justification for them may be long forgotten. There are many trials and tribulations to surmount. 

This is a day where we forget all of the division, arguments and separations. We honor those that fell, giving their all for their belief of country, honor, courage and sacrifice. 


~~Memorial Day Tribute~~

~~Published on May 23, 2013~~

A tribute to the men and women who fearlessly defend the freedoms we all enjoy.

We ALL are ONE!!